Some important factors to understand when attending a session with a medium
It’s important to know that there are several factors involved when communicating with those in the spirit world.
The medium, the sitter, and the communicating spirit(s) all play an important role. First we must consider the ability of the spirit to communicate. Just as people here in the physical world have varying abilities to communicate with one another, so it is in the world of spirit. We do not pass on and suddenly become enlightened angelic beings. Our personalities stay intact. A good rule of thumb is as follows – if the person was a good communicator here in the physical world, chances are that they are still a good communicator now in the world of spirit.
This brings us to another factor that is important to understand. Everything that lives has an energy field, a vibration, and a frequency. We do not all vibrate on the same frequency. For example, FM radio stations cannot be picked up on the AM dial. The alignment of the frequencies are not compatible. This may be one reason that the contact you thought would be made through the medium does not occur.
Now, we must also understand that you, the sitter, contribute to the process of communication. If you come to session with a list of expectations, you may leave feeling disappointed. The medium is not in charge, the spirit world is. Whatever is to be expressed during a session, is not up to you or the medium. It is up to those in the spirit world. Please understand that we are not in control here. A medium is simply an instrument.
A medium cannot guarantee that you will hear from a particular person (spirit). If you, the sitter, come to a session with an open heart and are willing to listen, participate, and validate those who have come to speak with you, you will get much more out of your session than if you were to show up with a prove-it-to-me, closed type of energy. It is important during a session to be alert and thinking. Therefore, a healthy bit of skepticism is fine as long as you are willing to leave your mind open to the possibilities of spirit communication. Hearing from those in spirit can be a joyous, funny, healing and beautiful experience.
One thing you can always expect…expect the unexpected!